This summer I have my first taste of a “big girl job.” To me, that means dipping my toes in what it’s like to work in an office setting from 8 to 5 (usually 4:40). I just past the one month mark at my summer job and, because of our wildly, fast-paced environment, I have learned quite a lot (you know me… always trying to learn something). It hasn’t always been perfect and bad days have happened, but the eternal optimistic in me has me looking at the bigger picture. Here are some of the things I’ve learned about working a full-time, office job.
Coffee is your friend, but should not be drunk on an empty stomach. I don’t know how many times I think I can get away with drinking my morning coffee before I eat something (I think the tally is now up to 5). Don’t get me wrong, I’ve become like a zombie if I don’t have coffee in the morning, but the jitters I feel when I have some before I eat anything are uncomfortable and make it impossible to get any work done, even hours later. I make sure to have at least a few bites of Cheerios before I take a sip of coffee and bring the coffee I don’t finish during breakfast with me to work. Which leads me to my next point…
Breakfast is really important, y’all. I’m one of those people that constantly thinks about food. Even if I just ate, I think about what I just ate and when and what I’m going to eat next – it’s a problem. Growing up, I was never a breakfast eater. I’m not a big fan of typical breakfast food (i.e. pancakes, waffles, eggs) and, because I’ve always needed to get up early for school/work, I wouldn’t be hungry before I left for wherever I was off to. Not eating breakfast before I leave for work at 7:45 is not only dumb, it’s counterproductive. If I skip breakfast before I leave in the morning, I’m hungry by the time I get to work (about a 10 minute walk). Then one of two things can happen: I can (a) suffer through the grumbling noises and pain of a hungry tummy or (b) eat my entire lunch before lunchtime and feel hungry again around 1 pm. See what I mean by counterproductive?
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This is something my parents have told me for years now, but I’ve only now realized how true it is: You won’t like everyone, but everyone has something to offer. I have a very hard time hiding my feelings about anything. This last year, I’ve really made strides to rid negativity from my life in every aspect possible because I feel like life is too short to live any of it unhappy. As you know, I don’t mean that life will always be rainbows and butterflies, but I don’t think that you need to be creating hard, uncomfortable or unfortunate situations for yourself. While, you don’t get to pick who you work with (usually), you can choose how you view their quirks and personalities. Maybe the person who is always late does very thorough work, maybe the one who talks too much offers comedic relief during stressful moments – majority of people have some upside. I think that its energy better spent if you focus on their upside than on how their personality or quirks rub you the wrong way.
Finally, there will be times when you want to put your head down on your desk and cry. Today, I was watching this video from Vivianna Does Makeup and she couldn’t have said it any better, “Sometimes you just have to push through.” I have had several of those days last week and what I realized was that if I stopped what I was doing to make time to cry, when I was done feeling sorry for myself and upset, the work I was avoiding would still be there – I would essentially gain nothing from crying. That’s not to say that I didn’t call my mom on the way home to vent about my long day, but sometimes, you just need to push through what you’re doing. I think one of my favorite quotes can fit nicely here: Discomfort is only temporary.
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If you’re currently working your first 8 to 5 or would like to share what you learned while working your first “big kid job,” I’d love to hear it! Leave your story down below in a comment for me and other readers to read!
Totally understand this! Just started my first 8-5 job, and I learned the “You won’t like everyone, but everyone has something to offer” lesson very early. I’ve actually been working a part-time job with it and finally put my two weeks in, because the mental strain was just too much!
Everyone needs their alone time here and again :)
Great post! xx, Elizabeth
Congratulations on putting your two weeks in at your part-time job!! Alone time or ‘me’ time as I like to call it, is CRUCIAL to keeping your sanity when you spend all day at the office.
I love what you said about not liking everyone, but everyone will teach you something! I think that is SO true and so so so important to remember, especially on the tough days.
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Totally agree! It’s been tough to not submit to complaining, but I realized that complaining doesn’t do anyone any good.
I’m 5 years into working 8-5 and I can say that those lessons still ring true today!
-Morgan
How 2 Wear It [] http://how2wearit.com
Yay!! Glad to know that – makes me feel like I’ve got my leg up on working in the office setting.
Congrats on being at your job a month! I completely agree with the breakfast point. I skipped breakfast in high school and my first year of college every single day because I simply didn’t leave time for me to eat in the morning. Then I was *starving* for the rest of the day. Totally not worth it!
-Meagan | lovebymeagan.blogspot.com
That’s exactly how I was all through high school (accompanied with a terrible sleep schedule) and I don’t know how I managed to stay awake and functional all day!
Great post! I learned alot of things at my first desk job, I agree with the eating, I find myself sometimes bored so I just snack (horrible habit), I find the urge to take a nap because you are so tired is so real. I dont understand why we dont have nap time in the real world.
xo CourtneyDrew
http://www.courtneydrew.com
I’m also a bored-snacker. I’ve been trying to rid myself of this habit – I’m getting better, but it’s still a work in progress haha!
Yes to all of these! I have drank coffee numerous times on an empty stomach. Not a good idea. Which led me to start eating breakfast every morning. Of course I also know that liking everybody is impossible. I do like how you put everyone has something to offer. There have been several days that I have wanted to lay my head down and cry at my desk. I just keep moving on.
I totally know how that feels when you want to give up and just lay under your desk and take a nap. My favorite part I have to say about working in an office is being able to leave it at the end of the day haha!
Breakfast is so important! I totally agree with the coffee thing, too!
Tori
mooretori.blogspot.com
Yes! Food is your friend before coffee is in the morning, that’s for sure!
Girl, you’re absolutely right about all of this! First of all, coffee on an empty stomach is no bueno, but I often don’t have time for breakfast–I should make time though.
Even if you don’t have time to sit down in the morning, you should look into some overnight breakfast recipes like overnight oats or even like make your own grab-and-go breakfasts. Seriously, you’ll notice the difference!
Coffee is definitely my friend! Very much needed to start my day!
-Mckenna | http://www.mckennableu.com
Totally agree, 100%
Coffee is always my friend! Especially in red cups. I miss them!
Haha! Coffee is always there when you need it most.
I work 8:30 to 5, and I’m so sad to say that caffeine has no affect on me! I guess that’s a good and bad thing. I’ve really been trying to get in the habit of eating breakfast. It makes a difference!
Breakfast definitely makes a difference! Even if you have to eat it on the go, a little something in the morning is good to get you going in the am.
I promise you it’ll get easier! I always have a snack or two in my office to help combat hunger during those days when back-to-back meetings means you’ll be skipping lunch.
Kayla || Keynotes from Kay
I hope so! I’m a big snacker so I’m also big on having snacks in the office. What are your favorite snacks to keep in the office?
YES: You won’t like everyone, but everyone has something to offer.
My favorite “lesson” so far :)
What great experience for you to be working at an 8-5 this summer!! Sometimes I wish that during my college summers I had more of a traditional internship experience that would have put me in an environment like this. Loved hearing more about it!
xoxo A
http://www.southernbelleintraining.com
Thanks :) I’ve also had internship experiences and honestly, it wasn’t for me (at least not the ones that I had). Hope you’re loving your new apartment!
These are great tips! I am dreading the day when I have to get up early for work haha!
Kristin
The Blush Blonde
You and me both haha!
I have definitely found that a couple hours for yourself in the morning is the BIGGEST thing to do when trying to survive a “big girl job”. Loved this post!
XO Corbin Tate
I’ll definitely give that a go! Thanks for reading :)
Ooh girl, by the time 9 o’clock rolls around I’m on my third cup o’ joe! Hang in there, it gets better, I promise! XO
Haha, thanks for the encouragement. Coffee has definitely become a way of living!
I learned a lot from my first office job too! I am all about coffee too, hehe!
I’d be completely lost without coffee, haha!
You don’t realise what a big thing it is to work full time until you start. I started last October and struggled so much to begin with, the bags under my eyes had never been bigger (from lack of sleep and crying!!) It’s an adjustment but you’re right, sometimes you have to push through!
I completely agree. Here’s to hoping that pushing through leads to happiness and great opportunity!